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Build a Bridge to the Life You Want

Build a Bridge to the Life You Want

Imagine you’ve been asked to build a bridge. The site has been chosen and the goal is clear: you are to build a bridge to allow cars to cross a river. Congratulations! The Research Begins After accepting the job, you dig into every book and video you can find on the subject. Every one of them talks about pavement and traffic flow – which of course makes sense. So after careful study and...

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Social Media and You

Social Media is at once surreal and extremely real. On the surreal side, you don’t owe it or any of us anything. Nor does what it gives you count for anything on its own. On the real side, it is exactly like real life with busy, busy people trying to live their lives as best they can. These people don’t have time for everything or everyone. They have massive personal challenges (that...

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Two Kinds of Friends

There are two kinds of friends. Those that encourage you by telling you your mess-up wasn’t all that bad. That the test wasn’t fair, the judging was too strict, or the expectations were too high. And those that tell you yes, you could’ve been better prepared and you should’ve practiced more. What the judge said may have been correct. That you can, and should, do better...

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