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If We Could Just Sit and Talk

I’d tell you:

  • That gigging today doesn’t mean you’ll be gigging 5 years from now.
  • That nothing beats building relationships with quality people.
  • If you’re missing home and/or friends and family now, it’ll only get worse.
  • Don’t build a career, build a life.
  • EVERYTHING you’re doing is building towards or taking away from the life you want. Choose wisely.
  • Yes everything. Your words. Your actions. Your relationships. Your equipment. Your attitude.
  • You don’t have to be a “STAR” to be a happy, productive, successful musician or artist.
  • Define “success” for yourself.
  • Music is first and foremost about art. It always has been and always will be.
  • Making art takes craftsmanship. Get great at crafting art.
  • Decide if you want to make a living from art or live to make art. There’s a difference. You can one, the other, or do both.
  • This is all your choice. No one’s but yours because, this is your life.
  • Making a living from art takes entrepreneurship. Get great at building and running the business called You, Inc.
  • Serve others. Give value – some of it for free, some not.
  • You are more than your talents – know your true worth as a person.
  • The more you give the world your true worth, the more success you’ll find. People gravitate towards truth.
  • Get around people who are in life where you want to be.
  • You have more opportunity than any musician who has ever lived. And you’ll have more tomorrow.
  • And I’d tell you so much more and ask thought provoking questions too.
  • But I’ll leave you with this for today: get to work. Yes, it takes work. Anything worth having does – and your life is indeed worth it.

Are any of these a surprise?

 

About Steve Grossman: Former ACM and Grammy Award winning drummer. Author, teacher, speaker and Dale Carnegie Facilitator. Music career coach and mentor.

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